Kat Travis

I started this blog to try and help myself as much as wanting to help others. Check out my BLOG POSTS page where I share my raw feelings about this journey called life. If I can help one person not feel alone… it is worth putting myself out there…

A little background…

I have been married to my best friend and twin flame for almost 2 years now. We met 20 years ago and somehow the stars aligned and brought us back together forever. I will have to write our story… it is truly one to be told.

I spent nearly 20 years with a narcissist man (14 married).🀯 He was charming in the beginning, I was blind to the way he would put me down or blame me for everything. We had a baby girl togetherπŸ‘Ά and I started helping to run his business.. after that.. I started noticing things…In April of 2018 almost a year after I left we finally divorced. πŸ’” I have paid for it weekly since with his unrelenting, evil 😈, delusional drug fueledπŸ’Š behavior.😱☠

My father is a hard working man who will never tell anyone no. My daddy has the biggest heartβ™₯️ of any man I know, almost to a flaw. I do love him and as they say I truly am “daddy’s little girl” He buries himself in his bibleπŸ“–, seemingly completely blind to the fact that while others need him… His family NEEDS him most of all..πŸ™

My mother is like no other woman you have ever met.πŸ’ƒShe loves her family, but she does tend to “make waves🌊” as all mothers do. She is learning (as am I) to find happiness.😊 In ourselves and not in others. Its hard to do. You can’t blame others for your unhappiness, or put expectations on others.⚠️
I’m just gonna leave that one there for no now.. lol

I have an older brotherπŸ’™ and older sister πŸ’› Yes, I am the baby.. We will all be living in separate states soon. I only say this because while I love my family, with all my heart. Like all families, we are not perfect either, but we do love each other the best way we know how.

As I said above I am now married to THE LOVE πŸ’šπŸ”₯πŸ”₯πŸ’š of my life Joseph,, have a 12 year old daughterπŸ§β€β™€οΈ, 19 year old step-sonπŸ§β€β™‚οΈ, 2 dogs πŸ•πŸΆ, a cat🐈, and 2 birds🐦.

πŸ’šπŸ”₯πŸ”₯πŸ’š, πŸ‘« ,πŸ§β€β™€οΈ,πŸ§πŸ»β€β™‚οΈ, 🐢🐢 , 🐈, 🦜. #godhelpme #idolovethemanimals #therapyanimals

I struggle with abandonment issues, grief, anxiety, depression, anger issues, PTSD, and just plain sadness. πŸ˜€πŸ˜­πŸ€¬πŸ˜±πŸ’€πŸ˜ΆπŸ˜πŸ€­πŸ˜‘βš οΈπŸ€―πŸ˜₯

I have researched and listened to pod castsπŸ—£, read self-help books πŸ“šand postsπŸ‘©β€πŸ’». PrayedπŸ™, read The WordπŸ“–, took devotionalsπŸ“˜. I’m no expert with a degree….but I am a survivorπŸ’žπŸ€ŸπŸ€™βœŒπŸ’₯πŸ–€. I’ve been in many different shoesπŸ‘ πŸ‘Ÿ and wore many different hats🎩🧒. I can relate to people in a way that is completely God given✝️ and when I am not β€œin my dark place” I love talking to people. πŸ˜‡πŸ₯°

Whatever battle βš”you are in, know you are not alone‼️Many times it’s easier to reach out to a complete stranger.. You may just need someone to listen. πŸŒ¬πŸ‘‚πŸΌπŸ‘©β€πŸ«πŸ‘©β€πŸ’» I am here. βœŒπŸ–€πŸ’ž

  • Encourager πŸ”ŠπŸ₯‡
  • Relationship Supporter πŸ“πŸ’ž
  • Coping solutions πŸ›€πŸ»πŸ’†πŸ½β€β™€οΈπŸ’ƒπŸ™‡πŸΌπŸ‘¨πŸΎβ€πŸ³πŸ™πŸ½πŸ™ŒπŸΏπŸ˜­πŸ₯°πŸ§˜πŸ½β€β™€οΈπŸ’ƒ
  • Good listener πŸ‘‚πŸΌπŸ™πŸ½πŸ‘©β€πŸ’»

To help anyone dealing with grief, hurts, anxiety, depression, divorce, raising kids, needing to not feel alone or you just might need a laugh. Try and keep up with me, I dare you!

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